Sophia and her 2 grown daughters were on a road trip to North Carolina to attend a memorial service for Sophia’s older sister. There were lots of emotions about attending the memorial since her sister, Marie, had borderline personality disorder and treated all 5 of her siblings, her husband, and even her children very meanly much of the time. She died at age 83 from complications of dementia and diabetes. The three of them debated for a long time over making the trip, since their feelings were so filled with past hurt. However, they realized that Marie, like everyone else, survived life’s challenges the best she knew how, considering her mental issues. They all decided they have forgiven her past hurts to them, and even felt empathy for the life she ended up living. They actually were happy that she was now out of physical and emotional pain, and in the arms of Jesus.
Sophia talked to the prayer team at St. Barnabas about her mixed feelings and fear of what emotions might pop up despite her best intentions. She prayed for a safe trip, a healing trip, and comfort for all the family members involved.
Before leaving home, Sophia and her daughters said a prayer for safe travel for them and others traveling to the memorial and for emotional comfort and peace for the family members. While heading up Interstate 85 in North Georgia, Sophia and her daughters noticed an 18 wheeler truck swerving slightly to the right, and then back to the middle. This continued for a couple miles and they watched him go farther and farther to the right, almost hitting the guardrail a few times. They all 3 feared for his life, as well as for those traveling behind him at 65 mph. One daughter, a former truck driver herself, got on the phone to 911 to explain what was happening and the other daughter debated whether to try to get by him or to just stay back until she could be sure of her safety in passing him.
Without warning, the danger escalated exponentially as the truck driver suddenly swerved far left, traveling directly in front of Sophia and her two daughters and ending up going off the highway to the left and onto the median, which luckily, did not have a guardrail at that point, or he would have crashed into the rail, thus causing Sophia and her girls to crash into the tractor trailer, as there was no time to stop or to swerve into another lane.
The daughter on the phone with 911 narrated what was happening in real time, while Sophia looked for mile markers to point to the location. They all held their breath and prayed while that huge truck rumbled down the grassy median which, to their relief, was free of trees or other obstacles. The trio of women feared the truck would flip on its side at any moment; however, the semi finally slowed and stopped in the middle of the mud left from days of rainfall. Sophia and her girls breathed a prayer of thanksgiving, asking for the health and well-being of the driver, and in thanksgiving for their safe extraction from a possibly deadly accident.
On their way back to Georgia, the ladies looked for the site of the incident, and were amazed at the fact that only in the one area of median where their no guardrails or trees. The sliding area was completely free of obstructions. If the truck driver had gone off the road just a little sooner or later, it would not have ended so well for the truck or other drivers!
To the ladies’ relief, the memorial service was very comforting and the chance to visit with cousins, second cousins, nieces and a nephew, and a couple in-laws, was cathartic for all of them. Thank you Jesus!
“For he shall give His angels charge over you, to keep you in all your ways. In their hands they shall bear you up, lest you dash your foot against a stone.” Psalm 91:11-12
To God be the Glory